I want to manifest a relationship with a specific person using the Law of Attraction. Will keeping my options open and going on dates with other people affect my ability to manifest that specific person?
I know that some people would disagree, but I don’t think it’s a good thing to try and manifest a specific person.
First, it’s a violation of their Free Will if you try forcing your affection on them.
And second, it drives me crazy how presumptuous people are.
Everyone believes that they know what’s best for them, but unless you’re clairvoyant and know exactly what the future holds for you, you actually have no idea what’s best for you.
Your “McDreamy” could turn out to be an abusive jerk… or maybe he’ll cheat on you… or maybe he’ll never be as into you as you are into him.
Or if you don’t know him that well yet, maybe he’s married, or on the rebound, or a player, or, or, or…
That’s where surrender to the Divine Wisdom comes in. Ask for guidance, ask for help in making the right decision.
Say, “If this is to the Highest and Best of All Concerned, then so be it.”
Say, “If this is the right partner for me, so be it.”
But don’t demand that THIS MUST be the person you get together with.
Add clauses to protect yourself. Otherwise, forcing your will onto someone else could backfire quite badly.
But let me climb down from my soapbox and answer your actual question: Yes, I think diluting your intention and focus by dating other people is a bad idea.
If you “keep your options open,” you basically declare that you don’t trust your manifestation… and such a declaration of doubt probably won’t lead to great results.